2 Feb If you find yourself flipping through a catalog of lesbian cliches, it won't take long for you to stumble onto a double-page spread labeled “man-haters.” It's a myth as old as Sappho herself, the idea that lesbians loathe lads. (Ironically, it's a superstition that was perpetuated by lads, to lend credence to that old. year-old gay man, spoke of how, having first identified as 'straight', being gay felt different: Nathan: I never really looked at lads. 'Cos I just used to think, you know how girls go 'aw she's really bonny, really pretty' or like girls kiss, 'cos I never looked at a lad and thought 'oh I wanna suck his cock' or 'I wanna shag 'im', . 17 Mar Researchers found those in all-girl couples were a third more likely to climax during sex compared to those who bedded fellas.